Terms & Conditions
Last updated: July 21 2025
Statement of Purpose
Cativae ("Cativae," "we," "us") operates www.cativae.com, an online social network for consenting adults interested in the swing lifestyle. This is not an escort, pornography, or live-cam service. All value is delivered online via community features (search, chat, events). No physical goods are offered.
1. Age Verification & §2257 Exemption
This Site is restricted to adults aged
18 or older—or the age of majority in your jurisdiction, whichever is higher. Upon first login you must confirm your age via an in-site modal and submit a government-issued ID for AI-driven verification with up to
5 automated attempts before manual review. All ID–scan logs are retained for
3 years.
For §2257 compliance, refer to our
2257 Exemption Statement. Our Records Custodian is:
Custodian of Records
Cativae - Premium Lifestyle
Email: records@cativae.com
2. Acceptance of Terms
These Terms constitute a binding agreement between you ("User") and Cativae governing your use of the Service. By accessing, registering for, or using the Service you agree to these Terms and our Privacy Policy. Cativae may update these Terms at any time. Continued use constitutes acceptance of changes.
3. Description of the Service
The Service enables Users to create profiles, search other members, participate in private and group chats, and RSVP to lifestyle events. Cativae is provided "as is" and may change, suspend, or discontinue any part at any time.
4. Content Standards & Explicit Content Blocking
Users may upload content freely; non-explicit material is published immediately. Any upload flagged as explicit or prohibited is automatically blocked from view pending manual review.
- Immediate publication for non-explicit uploads.
- AI moderation (AWS Rekognition) scans every upload for explicit content.
- Flagged content is hidden and reviewed by a moderator within 24 hours.
- Illegal, under-age, or non-consensual content is removed and may trigger account suspension.
5. Payment & Subscription Terms
Cativae subscriptions are processed securely by
CCBill. We currently offer three auto-renewing plans:
- Monthly Plan: US $19.95 billed every 30 days
- Quarterly Plan: US $53.85 billed every 90 days (equivalent to $19.95 / month)
- Annual Plan: US $179.40 billed every 365 days (equivalent to $19.95 / month)
Promotional pricing: From time to time we may offer discounts—e.g., up to
20 % off when you join through an invitation link. Any promotional or introductory rate will be displayed clearly on the CCBill checkout page
before you confirm payment; subsequent rebills occur at the promotional rate unless otherwise stated.
Your chosen plan
will automatically renew until you cancel. Transactions will appear on your card or bank statement as
"CCBILL.COM *CATIVAE 888-596-9279".
You may cancel at any time via
Account → Billing, by emailing
support@cativae.com, or by contacting
CCBill Consumer Support at +1 (888) 596-9279. Cancellation stops future rebilling immediately; you will retain access until the end of the current paid period.
All sales are final. We do not provide pro-rated refunds for unused subscription time, except in cases of billing error or where required by law or card-network regulations.
6. Safety & Offline Meetings
Cativae does not conduct criminal background checks. You are solely responsible for your interactions online and offline. Exercise caution and review our
Safety Tips before arranging meetings.
7. User Responsibilities & Prohibited Conduct
You agree to provide accurate information and abide by all laws. Prohibited conduct includes harassment, impersonation, malware distribution, and non-consensual sharing of content. Cativae may suspend or terminate accounts for violations.
8. Disclaimer of Warranties
THE SERVICE IS PROVIDED “AS IS” AND “AS AVAILABLE.” CATIVAE DISCLAIMS ALL IMPLIED WARRANTIES, INCLUDING MERCHANTABILITY, FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE, AND NON-INFRINGEMENT.
9. Limitation of Liability
To the fullest extent permitted by law, Cativae shall not be liable for indirect, incidental, or consequential damages arising from your use of the Service.
10. Indemnification
You agree to indemnify and hold harmless Cativae and its officers, directors, employees, and agents from any claims arising out of your use of the Service or violation of these Terms.
11. Dispute Resolution & Arbitration
Before initiating arbitration, you and Cativae agree to attempt informal resolution for 30 days after written notice. Unresolved disputes shall be settled by binding arbitration under the rules of the American Arbitration Association in New Castle County, Delaware. You waive any right to a jury trial.
12. Governing Law
These Terms are governed by the laws of the State of Delaware, USA, without regard to conflict-of-law principles.
13. Force Majeure
Cativae is not liable for delays or failures resulting from causes beyond its reasonable control, including natural disasters, acts of government, or internet outages.
14. Data Retention & DMCA Takedown
We retain moderation logs for 5 years, ID-verification records for 3 years, and backup data for 12 months. See our
Privacy Policy for full details.
Deleted content may be retained for up to 12 months for legal compliance and backup. If you believe content infringes your copyright, send a DMCA notice to
dmca@cativae.com or our designated agent at 123 Orange St, Wilmington DE 19801.
15. Complaint & Appeal Policy
Users may report content via the in-site “Report” tool. We acknowledge every report within
24 hours and resolve actionable complaints within
7 business days. Moderation decisions may be appealed by emailing
appeals@cativae.com, and will be reviewed within 7 days.
16. Transparency Reporting
Cativae submits monthly incident reports (including “zero-incident” reports) to credit card Merchant Portal, covering:
- Number of flagged uploads
- Manual takedowns
- Appeals received and outcomes
17. Anti-Trafficking & Marketing Standards
We prohibit any content or conduct that facilitates trafficking, exploitation, or non-consensual acts. We adhere to the Coalition Against Trafficking in Persons guidelines. All marketing materials exclude terms like “teen,” “underage,” and any content that could imply illegal activity.
18. Content Provider Agreement
All users uploading media must first review and agree to our
Content Provider Agreement, which outlines prohibited content, age/ID verification requirements, and grants Cativae the license to host and distribute uploaded materials.